Both. That is the answer my grandchildren give me all the time. “Do you want butter or cream cheese on your bagel?” “Both!” In unison comes back to me, both at the same time.
Me? For years I counted calories and the dread of too much FAT would send me running. The very idea – Both? Yes! if that is what you WANT, Both! Both/And.
So often we put ourselves in either/or status. What happens? We cut ourselves off from MUCH. Much good, much joy, much fun, much excitement, much love.
So can life be a HOOT? Yes! Can life be a DREAM? Yes! Can life be filled with much good, joy, fun, excitement and love?
Yes! Say Yes to Life and Life says YES to you.
BAM!!!! You nail it, Diane! What is all this externally driven crap about denial. Denying to attain a goal, to live into your greatness, to reach for living into our magnificence…PERFECT!! Denying what we desire because we are ‘not enough’ in someone ELSE’S version of how and who we ‘should’ be is crapolla! LOVE your blog this week. You always hit the nail on the head.